Any hand stitcher will tell you: To
embroider or crochet slowlymends the spirit, stitch by stitch. It is the one
thing I can do to quiet my mind in the dark hours of night, when sleep is a
chimera. Best Usha Janome Memory Craft 450E in Chennai For some brutalized women in Honduras, to crochet not only keeps the
demons at bay; it may be a lifeline to a future without fear.
I volunteer at a shelter for asylum seekers
in Tucson, but only recently did I discover the true extent of the abuse women
in Honduras endure, from an opinion piece in The New York Times by Sonia
Nazario, titled “Someone is Always Trying to Kill You.” Routinely raped,
tortured and finally murdered, they can end up as bodies dumped on roadsides to
be found by children at play.
In the middle of Ms. Nazario’s harrowing
report is the most incongruous of images: a close-up photograph of a woman’s
hands embroidering a bird in flight. She is the founder of a women’s center in
the Honduran town of Cholomathatserves victimized women. While the leaders of
the center teach women how to protect their rights, they also encourage them to
crochet and make things they can sell.
The little that women carry with them as they flee north
often includes heirloom-quality handwork: artifacts of a family left behind.
They may lose their belongings en route, but they will never lose the
generational skills honed since childhood.
The round doily I discovered in the desert outside my
former ranch near the Arizona-Mexico border testifies to the art of family. The
tightly wound planet of yarn coils in a starfish pattern around its center. The
blue yarn trails from an unfinished edge down and around a palm-sized hunk of
mesquite wood fashioned into an improvised“spindle on the run.” Think of it. In
the midst of migrating, in the middle of the Arizona desert, a woman crochets.
I witness firsthand the healing nature of crochet and
embroidery through the needlework groups I host with traumatized women and some
men at Casa Alitas, a shelter for
migrants located in a former Benedictine monastery. At the end of a long hall,
past separate dormitories for men and women filled with wall-to-wall Red Cross
cots, is an activities room, a rare concession for the bare-bones,
volunteer-run shelters at the border.
The little that women carry with them as they flee north often
includes heirloom-quality handwork: artifacts of a family left behind.
The room, like the building itself, is a godsend. Used as
a sewing room by the Benedictine nuns who lived there for 80-plus years, it
emanates a quiet sense of the holy. Natural light floods in through clear-paned
windows onto a large fabric table in the center of the pop-up classroom, where
the guests practice emergency English, kids draw and paint, and mothers with
infants on their laps embroider and crochet whenever they can. Cries of
children echo down the hallways, but inside the activity room is a sanctuary of
imagination, a balm for anxious and exhausted migrants.
No matter how beat down they feel, guests are eager to
put their hands to cloth. Survivors of assault carry scars that will last a
lifetime, but the solace and patience found in handwork lends tensile strength
and resiliency to one’s days. Women working with each other, like my
grandmother’s quilting bees in
rural Appalachia, create the kind of support it takes to get through the worst
of times. In Latin American culture, that comadre—friendship and
respect between women—remains the foundation of family and community.
Folded into the basket of embroidery and
crochet supplies I bring to the shelter is my own mother’s embroidery. It is
when I share my mother’s work and how the act of embroidering keeps me close to
her that the deepest connection is made. The women smile and nod, eyes soften,
and shoulders relax. We have all lost our mothers and the homes of our youth.
Working the cloth keeps those we have lost alive in us.
The women at the monastery create their own
projects by tracing elements from pattern books of birds, butterflies and
flowers onto cotton pañuelos (handkerchiefs).
They choose the supplies they will need to complete their piece—needles, thread
and an embroidery hoop—to use on the final leg of their bus trips to sponsors
living across the United States. They are skilled artisans with much to teach,
embroidering quickly and confidently and crocheting with the same tight
stitches I found on the blue doily in the desert.
Other
guests who may be too exhausted to do their own designs from scratch
participate in a group embroidery project, a large cotton cloth stamped with a
design of Our Lady of Guadalupe, the personification of feminine forbearance in
the face of adversity.
We
are all makers. The unceasing hunger to work with one’s hands stems
from the basic human drive for peace, security and freedom from fear. To
transform the ugly and broken into something of meaning and beauty, to
transcend the present like the birds in flight often seen in the drawings of
migrant children:This is humanity’s common thread.
Not unlike birds of air, humans artfully build our nests on
the most fragile of branches, yet we are endlessly inventive in our cultural
arts, from stitching tortilla cloth servilletas and Navajo rug
weaving to Bedouin tent-making. Our penchant for creativity has always saved us
from savagery. We thrive instinctively when we bond and beautify.It comes as no
surprise that a recent message from a shelter in Nogales, Mexico, 60 miles
south of Tucson, where families now wait for weeks or months for an asylum
interview, was not the regular request for food, clothing and blankets. It was
instead an urgent plea from migrating women for crochet needles and yarn.
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